It’s Okay to Let Go..!!!!!

Everybody lives in their fantasy world… Especially teenagers, Does True Love exists..!! Is it true if the concept of a soulmate is for real..!! Is it true if you can ever find so-called Mr/Miss Perfect..!! Do fairy tale love stories happen for real? Is there something called “perfect relationship”? Are all love stories similar to that of Bollywood movies? So this post is personally dedicated to all the Teens across the Globe and of course, everybody else is welcome to read it 🙂                                                                                                                Okay, now coming back to reality 😛 We live, We make friends, We have fun and try’n enjoy to the fullest, We make mistakes and learn from them, We Dream, We party, Have a fixed everyday routine as in, School or college, tuition etc where we keep trying to step out of so-called boring everyday routine in every way possible, and then we’ll have this huge crush on someone who we think at a very young age as if it is love. In fact, children who don’t even know the meaning of love have Gf/Bf these days.

Let me share a true story with you guys. So there was this very cute li’l girl who always believed that, if she gets into any relation, that’ll be very much relatable to the most happening happy love stories which are usually shown in movies. She always stayed in her Dreamy world. She had never seen the other face of the world. The guy whom she came into relation with, was her best friend, who always used to make her laugh and the girl felt happy with him, thinking that they would have this “perfect happy relationship”, she accepted the guy’s proposal. But then a couple of days later, the guy who used to make her laugh to the core, started making the same girl cry to the core, cheated on her, hurt her so very deep that it was too huge for her to handle it for her age and finally broke her heart for the 1st time ever. Although it was nobody’s fault here. At such young age who would have a serious relationship, the girl here thought she loved him and always blindly gave her heart to him, who broke her heart every time in every possible way and was never serious. He just wanted to show off in front of his friends and he did it. The girl later hit the major depression level, stopped having food, stopped caring herself, started staying within closed walls and a door shut, always frustrated and always rude. She had no idea what went wrong, she forgot to smile, she just felt empty and lonely, nobody to share things with and the friends whom she had before were no more with her since, the guy had created distance (misunderstandings) between them. Her parents worried and failed to find out what was going on with their daughter.

Then another guy came into her life with all the good intentions, good human with a kind heart, made her laugh, taught her to smile genuinely, helped her in most of the things, and she too was a great support system for him, loved him, appreciated him, helped him in every way possible. The guy while sorting her life, suddenly started hurting her, ignoring her. And all of a sudden, he became too possessive, took her for granted, hurt her badly by still staying in contact with his ex, cutting off all her social sites away which she always enjoyed being active on, yelling at her sometimes in public too and one fine day the girl reached threshold level of tolerance and since she was tired of all these insecurities she decided to move on. After a long break when the guy realized where it went wrong, it was too late, and by then the girl had already moved on in her life. He again returned back for one more chance but things started getting clumsy day by day between the two. Then both of them finally parted their ways after 4-5 years of togetherness..!!! For the very 1st time of heartbreak, the girl went under depression but the next time the girl managed to stay positive this time.                                                                                             For everyone, God has a fixed plan. Like people suicide because of love failures or breakups, start consuming drugs, put their lives in danger knowingly, makes no sense. Don’t be impatient, don’t take wrong and impulsive decisions. Because along with you your family will have to suffer. So, it’s okay to let go..!!

Never give up your life for someone else, there is something special in store for you. It is surely not necessary to have found your soulmates by the 1st or the 2nd or may be by the 10th time you meet or get into a relationship. Every human is different and every human’s nature too will differ from one another. Then it is obvious that the choices will differ. For instance, if you have to buy a chair from a shop, you go sit on the chairs that you prefer buying based on your requirements- design, color, material, comfort, brand, price, height etc and among them, you’ll end up buying the one that matches your requirements. So, if that is the case for just buying a chair, then to find out your soulmate you’ll definitely need time to find out the one who you feel is the best one for you and is born to be your sunshine!! Although people can make faces at you or judge you for your trials. But guys, it’s your life. Once you marry, just marry the most comfortable and understanding one where both of you enjoy each others company forever and after, and make decisions such that you would never regret your togetherness..!!!

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31 thoughts on “It’s Okay to Let Go..!!!!!

  1. Congratulations on reaching 100+ followers. Long way to go. 💖

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      1. Welcome. Looking forward to reading your new posts

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      2. That’s really very sweet of you..!!

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  2. Beautiful post.. 🙂

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  3. This is beautiful writeup designed wonderfully with quotations & importantly with a very practical and informative approach( i love the illustrative story).
    I hope teenagers will have a look on it as they took drastic steps that becomes more troublesome for thier families and yess thanks for visiting my blog.
    Keep writing👍😇

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    1. Yes, I know right. Thank you and I appreciate you for stopping by 🙂

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  4. Ahhhh love …. a wonderful and endless topic. For what it’s worth, from someone who’s lived a bit, there IS a soulmate for everyone out there. There are however, many, many people whom we could easily fall into marriage with. But the soulmate is different. And you know it when you meet them – your world is never the same again. You feel at peace and you love them as you love yourself. I married much too young and seven years later was ditched along with my two beautiful children. It took 10 years or more to recover from that, ten years of bringing up children on my own with no support or backup, just a narcissist in the background wanting me to fail. Then, after many, many years of meeting ‘perfectly acceptable’ men, I finally and out of the blue met my soulmate. He knew it too and now life is so very, very glorious in all its colours. Hold out for that soulmate …. he’s there, you just have to find him. ❤️❤️❤️

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    1. Oh, my God. That might be really the hardest times of your life…!!! Raising up kids, a single parent going through so much in life needs a lot of courage to lead as such…!! You’re Awesome and I’m glad to have met you. You are an inspiration to all those who are going through terrible phases of life and you’re also a ray of hope where people after going through so much can still believe that one day even they’ll meet their road that leads to Happiness… I’m so very happy to hear that you found your Soulmate and I can literally feel your happiness… I always wondered if soul mates exist for real, and there you go, An experienced one, Lucky you.. 🙂 Lots of Love, “Stay Happy & Spread Smiles Allover” !! ❤

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      1. You are super sweet! Thanks and looking forward to reading more of your posts! X

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  5. I love this. Congratulations on your new quest and greater heights I wish you.

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      1. You’re most welcome my dear.

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  6. awkward brown guy March 9, 2018 — 6:03 pm

    True words Ashwarya, thanks for sharing 🙂 And for following my blog. I noticed that your “social buttons” (Twitter, etc) at the bottom aren’t connecting – if you google “WordPress social buttons”, you should find how to connect or delete these, as appropriate 🙂

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    1. Thanks for getting it to my concern… I will definitely check it out..!!! 🙂

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      1. awkward brown guy March 10, 2018 — 4:15 pm

        No problem 🙂

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  7. Well done, great quotes to share the same sentiments. A message worth reading and sharing. It is okay to let go. I’ve come to a point in my life, I have to love me, regardless if others do or don’t. Thanks for the message

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    1. Yes, self love is way too important than anything else… Thank you and I appreciate you for stopping by and sharing your thaughts.. 🙂

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  8. I think a key in finding happiness with another is being able to have happiness alone. There also may be times when there is no “other”.

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    1. Yes, I agree with you… That is so very true..!!!

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  9. Such a classic tale of young love and loss, you tell it beautifully and I love the chair analogy! I too went through the first true love relationship (chair felt perfect) and heartbreak. I do think we can feel love from the day we are born, though. I think it takes having that first heartbreak to help us learn about ourselves, who we are attracted to, who we probably should avoid, and what committed relationships are really all about. Great post!

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    1. haha, that’s so very true… we happen to fall in love, realize in case we’re wrong, break into pieces and again fall in love..!!! And Thank you so much for expressing your thoughts on the blog post, appreciate the fact for stopping by 🙂

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  10. Strength lies in letting go of what no more empowers you.😊
    More power to you.keep writing.

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